50 shades of GREEN

No! Not that book, nor even worse, the movie. I am not talking about the shady desires of Mr.
GREEN by any imagination. I am talking about the shades of my favorite color for the first date.
First date, by the way, does not have to be literally the first date.

Like First Lady, first date is the special date and can be the first date as the very first date is very special anyway. Unlike many who advocate red for first date, I have never seen a decent, classy girl wear red in the first date.Red can be striking but is notoriously risky for spouting dangerous impression to the beholder.So leave the red to the pony-tail-high-heel blondes.

Green stands out to be the best above all other colors in the first date. What are the shades –
are all greens GREEN? Certainly not. But these are the fashionable greens that you should try
and see what suits you. Remember that fashion is an expression and you need to apply the
color to the right look, dress, mode, occasion and outset.
See the color chart and keep it for your reference. Avoid other green shades as these are tested
to be the best among color scientists and fashion designers. For a conservative expression,
choose olive, pickle or basil. They also tend to go all the season. But that is exactly my problem
– if the color goes all season, then it is neither a glamor nor an expression for a specific season
or mode. This is why I tend to choose parakeet and shamrock.

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Parakeet and shamrock gives a bright yet not overly loud view. Sunny day or rainy, sun rise or
sunset, these two colors survive well and above the expectation. Ancient Chinese Ming Kings
used to send pretty female messengers wrapped in shamrock shade to the other emperors or
kings for delivering their messages. The shamrock messengers would brighten the mode of the
receivers. And Ming dynasty was no jerk. They ruled for over twelve hundred years. So they
knew it then. We have not learned from history, it seems and try to reinvent the wheel.
Shamrock green is proven to give a soothing, calming and brightening effect on the beholder.
The Ming kings used the shade to win a kingdom. Well, you can use the color to win your
prince.

THESE RELATIONSHIP TIPS WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE

We all have different perspectives about life and relationship. No two person’s reality is same – Reality Is an Illusion. Your reality is in your brain, my reality is in my brain. That is true but we have patterns of perspectives and philosophy of life about life and relationship. There are basics that we learned over the course of civilization and those are always true but we tend to overlook them often. Going back to the basics is the most modern thing in managing relationship. Human beings live for three basic needs – knowledge to meet curiosity, self-assertion to meet social esteem and apetition to meet psychological and physiological hunger. In the age of social media and fast digital society, we subconsciously tend to catch up to the speed of what we see around us. We are exposed to a vast array of information, stories, graphics and emotions to shape our perspective. This is why we must remember the basics. There is no limit to how much you can or should know. People often seek information about partners or lovers or friends in all possible ways out there. They are always under pressure to know more or to find ways to know more. This creates distress into your perception about the relation and the person on the other side of the relation. Seeking a new partner or validating an existing partner gets way too stressful and the stress shows into your behavior.

In the end, this affects your judgement and your relation. The good old way of knowing a person from friends or social engagement is still the best. And obviously e-dating and mating by chatting already is proving far too risky than ever before for the same reason. Parkinson’s law of triviality explains why we consume so much digital and social news or information. People these days spend way too much time in something that they easily understand than something that find complicated. Casual reading is good for a break but serious reading and decisions must not come from piles of trivial reading or app-flipping. Quantity without quality social media then gives an illusion of social status that I am better than others – I know this news ahead of others, I look better than others, I visited the place before others…the list goes on. Internet is helpful, digital media is unavoidable to get connected to society recently but do not prejudice your judgement of life and relation with your partner (or potential partner if you are on the lookout) by this vast yet trivial inputs to your brain.

Read substances, think deeply and develop a relation based on your perception, thinking and real knowledge. Then there is a good chance that you will not stumble in your relations.